When a major change happens in your life there are two things you can do, 1) Welcome the change and utlize it for the best or 2) Try with all your might to withstand the change and keep living in the past. I recommend choice number 1.
Change can be Scary
For the most part, the human race does not like change. We are accustomed to daily routines, the same people in our life, and the comfort of knowing exactly what tommorow will bring. But without change we would never move forward, we would stand in the same spot for our entire lives.
I am guessing that you have goals in your life that you would like to accomplish and that you dream big. If I am right then change is your best friend. Whether the change in your life was anticipated or not, your attitude and perception of the change will determine the outcome.
How to Welcome Change
If you are terrified about a change that has recently happened or is right around the corner, ask yourself the following questions:
- What good can come of this?
- How can I prepare to make this transition smoother?
- What lesson is to be learned here?
- Who can I lean on for support?
Be bold, you are a strong person and you are more than capable of getting through this tough/terrifying time. Life is constant change. Life is not easy, but the attitude that you approach life with is what makes all the difference.
Don’t supress your feelings eihter. Find someone that you can talk to and let your emotions run free. Once you get your feelings off of your chest you will have a clearer mind and will be better able to map out your plan for dealing with this change.
“The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live.”